
Hmmmm...
I saw this on a dating blog and I just wanted to re-post it here b/c i think that it rings true. The only thing that I would do differently is switch numbers 2 and 3. Enjoy.
"Comment by blubronxtail on 18 January 2009:
I just love these articles. I’m always interested in the latest news on the sexes. Now I agree with the levels above. However most men usually only have 5 different levels. :
Level 1. The female friend. They are not attracted to you that much but if they are they don’t want you to really know that. They may want you to become the Level 3 woman but that’s about it. They will talk about other woman to you and ask advice, may even talk about how great they are sexually.Usually they may not even really tell you the full on truth about who they are. They are not reliable or dependable. They talk when there is nothing better to do. They may cancel hangouts with you and come up with bogus reasons. You don’t get mad because this is your platonic friend and you really want to chew their ear off about dates with men, but say ok we’ll reschedule. When your birthday comes around they may or may not remember.
Level 2. The (real)female friend that they respect. They want you to become Level 3 woman but they don’t have the guts to tell you how they really feel. This person idolizes you and if they had the chance would run off and marry you if you gave them the thought that it was an option. They also talk about how great they are in bed and also try to show you how similar your interests are. They may even give you gifts that seem a bit over the top for a platonic friend.
The booty call/friends with benefits: The Level 3 woman is a woman who they can sleep with at random. Doesn’t matter the time or place. They aren’t required to spend a dime. They will also give you the “friends with benefits” conversation as if they are really providing you with real benefits. This person is usually horrible in bed but what better way to practice than with a woman who they don’t really respect or care about. The very act of her sleeping with him further confirms his views and he test how far she will go to further break herself down. He is embarrassed to be seen with this woman, either based on her physical appearance ,racial, economic standings or known promiscuous behavior. If this man does let anyone know of his involvement with this woman, it’s to further his “yeah I hit that” status.
GIRLFIEND/WIFE Level 4 woman is the wife material. The one that a man knows is and will always be the one. The one he can’t live without. The one that he respects for reasons of either education, moral,religious,physical attractiveness etc. or all of the above.
MOTHER/SISTER/TEACHER etc. Level 5 the woman that shape his views on how to treat other woman. Hopefully what he sees helps him establish good relations with other women but ultimately a man will make his own choice regardless. Usually he never discusses sex with any of these woman either due to their age or his actual relation to the individual. Now I do know alot of men have those fantasies about the teacher and pet scenario but If she’s a woman in her 70’s with salt and pepper hair, she’s usually not the sex symbol to come to mind for most men.
Well there it is my view on the subject:)
~Much Blue Love!!!"
Please feel free to comment.-Paz

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